Expertise:
being vocal about desires,initiatin g intimacy and guiding a partner on what feels good.physical techniques;strong control of pelvic muscles to increase tightness,skilled oral techniques or proficiency in specific sexual positions
Turns Off:
be direct and calm;choose a neutral time to talk not during intimacy to avoid making me feel attacked.focus on the positive ;frame the turn off as a way to increase pleasure.i really love it when we example but I feel less turned on when that happens.be specific instead of saying you are sel